Back in 2020 when I started this blog the femininity movement was just gaining momentum. There were not 100’s or thousands of people online giving advice on dating and what a feminine woman looks like. Today, you cannot get online without someone telling how a lady should act and behave. This is especially true when it comes too dating. Everyone is a relationship expert, and most are unqualified.
I never claimed to be an expert when it came to femininity or dating. I’ve just been sharing what I learned over the years in hopes that it helps you ladies along your journey. When taking advice online I find it best to take everything with a grain of salt. No one person has all the answers (myself included). Here are a few things to keep in mind when taking dating or femininity advice online
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- Is this person in a LT committed relationship?
- If you’re taking dating advice then make sure that person giving the advice is qualified. If that not even in a LT relationship, married, divorced (b/c they were formerly in one) then there’s a high likelihood this person has no idea what it takes to actually sustain a relationship
- Does this person have the lifestyle I aspire to have?
- Now, everything looks good via social media, but even if a person takes nice pictures in nice locations are they always alone? And is that the lifestyle you too aspire to have? If not, then take that into consideration when listening to said person
- Is this persons views realistic or idealistic?
- Everyone loves to talk about limiting beliefs when it comes to manifesting your dream partner, and I will agree this is a factor when going after what you want in life. However, you need discernment because there is a difference between something that is realistic and within reach and something that is just a fantasy.
Ultimately, it is up to you ladies to seek out the information then filter what is useful and how to incorporate it into your life. Just know that all advice ain’t good advice. And just because someone calls themselves a relationship expert doesn’t mean they are.
