You’ve heard of him? Well, I’m her. That’s the energy I’m walking into 2024 with. I’m claiming it now: In 2024 we will become the best version of ourselves that ever exist.
The year 2024 is 2+0+2+4=8. In numerology, a spiritual practice that gives meaning to numbers, the number 8 is ruled by the planet Saturn which key traits are perseverance and ambition. So, when you think of an eight year, 2024, think of building, doing and creating. Unlocking your personal power and becoming the best version of yourself.
In 2024 we’re only getting hotter, richer, and smarter.
If you’re yearning for a transformative shift in your life, aiming to step into your “I’m Her”, and embody the woman you’ve always envisioned, then there’s no better moment to embark on this journey than now.
Step 1: Shift your energy & focus on yourself
Energy is so powerful.
We all know it. We all feel it, and yet, we don’t take enough ownership of our own energy. Learning to wield your energy intentionally is one of the most transformative things you can do for your life as a woman. You can do this by pouring your focus into yourself and things that bring you joy. This means removing your attention from any and everything that does not directly add to the betterment of your life.
You are your #1 priority, so all your actions should be in alignment with that. Recognize as women we have intrinsic value. We are the portals between the 3D and the spiritual world, and therefore have the ability to use our life source to tune into the energetic frequency of what we want to create our desired outcomes. With this great power comes great responsibility, and so we have to use it wisely. That means being selective with who and what you give your energy to. Every thought, every word, and every action in your life should be seen as an investment into yourself and the life you want to create. Anything outside of that is outside of your control, and therefore deserves freedom from your mind.
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By shifting your energy and focusing on yourself you will radiate self-love that everyone can see. Your aura automatically says “I treat myself well, and expect the same of others” and I promise you, others will oblige. This shift will allow you to become magnetic to amazing people and opportunities.
Now, I know this is easier said than done, but if you can develop the ability to withdraw your attention from the external, shift your energy, and focus on yourself, you can absolutely become the woman of your dreams. The key is to focus only on what you can control. Anything outside of that, that steals your peace is out of your control. Focus on pouring into yourself, like you are a cup that needs to be filled to the brim with energy, love, and attention. Prioritize your relationship with God and self. Unlock the doorway to becoming the woman you envision, step by intentional step to becoming the best version of yourself.
Step 2: Write down everything you want
This can be physically like pen and paper or a note in your phone. Either way it needs to get out of your head and on to paper.
In order to really level up your life you need a plan. Without direction you will be aimless, and nothing can be accomplished without a roadmap. Things are twice as likely to happen if they are written down. Goals requires clarity and specificity. Begin by listing your desires—personal, professional, emotional, and material. Go beyond just stating the goals; define how achieving these goals would make you feel.
Add visuals to your words. Create a detailed vision board or a plan that vividly portrays your dreams. Use visuals, words, and symbols that resonate with your aspirations. This serves as a powerful visual reminder of what you’re working towards. As your ideas evolve, keep updating and refining this representation of your dreams to stay aligned with your aspirations in becoming the best version of yourself.
Additionally, accountability is crucial. Consider tracking your time meticulously, identifying areas where hours could be redirected towards your goals. Establish morning and night routines that serve as intentional moments to align your energy with your desires. Morning rituals could involve meditation, visualization, or affirmations, while night routines might include reflection, gratitude practices, or planning for the next day.
Step 3: Rebrand your image – hotter, richer, smarter
Who do YOU want to be in 2024 (and for the rest of your life for that matter)?
Revamping your image is more than just a superficial change—it’s about aligning your outward expression with your inner transformation. Start by curating a wardrobe that resonates with your desired image. Find some aesthetic inspo, and incorporate elements of their style into yours. A few of my aesthetic inspos are Jas Tookes and Tina Kunakey.
Invest in quality accessories (like dainty gold jewelry) and embrace minimalist beauty routines inspired by figures like Lori Harvey or Hailey Baldwin. Opt for simple makeup looks and neutral-toned nails that exude confidence and sophistication.
However, remember that true beauty emanates from within. While external enhancements can boost confidence, genuine attractiveness stems from self-assurance, kindness, and authenticity.
Key takeaways to rebranding your image
- Upgrade your wardrobe
- stick to solid colors and basic staples
- try stores like Aritzia, Zara, Reformation
- Invest in dainty gold jewelry
- signature rings, bracelets,
- Practice minimalist beauty
- think: lori harvey, hailey baldwin.
- simple makeup, nude/neutral nails
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Step 4: Do a social audit – upgrade your circle
I’m a firm believer in birds of a feather flock together. We are the sum of the 5 people we interact with the most. Therefore, it’s important to be selective when choosing your company.
Friends serve as a mirror reflecting our values and beliefs, so surrounding yourself with individuals who share your principles and ambitions fosters an environment of support and encouragement. They propel you towards growth, inspiring you to strive for your goals while providing a foundation of guidance and motivation.
Furthermore, you should constantly asses if the people around you fit your future. You only want to hang out the inspired and inspiring. As they say, your network is your net worth.
It’s about cultivating meaningful connections. Engage in conversations that stimulate growth and encourage you to evolve. Attend events or join communities aligned with your goals and interests. Invest time in friendships that uplift and motivate you to become the best version of yourself.
By consciously curating your social circle, you’re fostering an environment that encourages personal growth, positivity, and mutual support—a crucial aspect of your journey towards becoming the woman you aspire to be and becoming the best version of yourself.
Step 5: Get BUSY
I mean this with every fiber of my being. You have to get a life!
Don’t just get busy for the sake of being busy, but find hobbies, friends, and community supporting what you enjoy. It’s not just about being occupied but leading a life that resonates with your passions, aspirations, and personal fulfillment. Crafting a life that genuinely aligns with your essence is a journey worth investing in.
On average, we spend 4+ hours a day on social media. Imagine what one could accomplish putting that energy towards something meaningful like our goals!
You’re not the girl at the bar every weekend. You’re the girl that has a schedule and people have to get on it. Be the woman spending her time pursuing her heart’s desires and genuinely living a life she loves.
This is seriously a major key that too many women overlook. We think after we find the relationship suddenly our life will be fulfilling. You don’t want anyone, especially not a man, to be your entire life. Live for YOU. Do not spend your time living your life for other people, stuck in your head, or worse, in the house!
Lastly, we’ve only got one life to life, so live it! Don’t sit on the sidelines waiting for life to happen. The more you pour into yourself and your life the more the things you want will naturally come into your life. In 2024 you can become the best version of yourself, so let’s make it happen!
