Some call it freestyling others call it being attractive in public. Nevertheless, if you want made men to approach you, you need to look like the type of woman they want to approach.
Disclaimer: it’s important to keep in mind that a man has to be interested in order to approach you in the first place. Otherwise all your smiles and eye batting will go to waste. You will not be everyone type and that’s okay.
Step 1: Look like a dimepiece
You want to be the type of woman that effortlessly attracts attention when she enters the room. I mean hair, nails, skin all on fleek. Being an attractive woman is 50% appearance and 50% attitude. Confidence is numero uno in looking your best. Looking good will only take you so far, but the belief that you are the hottest woman on the planet will take you beyond.
Keys to being a looking your best
- Stay in shape
- Your hair should be well maintained and always a natural color
- Keep your nails refined (short and a neutral color)
- Wear clothes that are tasteful, yet sexy (show off your figure and best features legs. arms, chest, etc, but not too much)
- Jewelry should be simple and only one statement piece
- Wear a perfume that suits you
MORE: How To Look Pretty and Polished Daily
Step 2: Go to the right places
- Steakhouses
- Hotel bars
- Country clubs
- Charity events
- In their neighborhoods
The most important place you can go is outside. You never know where you’ll find a successful man, but odds are you will not find him from your couch.
If you aren’t where successful men are you have no chance of being approached by one. Whether you’re looking for a sugar daddy or potential husband they likely can be found in the similar places.
Step 3: Body language
A man isn’t going to approach a woman that looks like she doesn’t want to be bothered. Period. You need to give him subliminal signals that if he approaches you you will be receptive.
A few inviting gestures and social cues are all you need to make him feel comfortable approaching you.
- Make purposeful eye contact (lock eyes with him, hold it, then look away)
- Smile
- Sit up straight and keep arms uncrossed
Step 4: The art of conversation
Getting him to cross the room is the first part. The next, is to capture his attention with your ability to flirt and hold conversation. Everyone loves a charming woman, and now is your time to show him he made the right decisions crossing the room for you. The only way to become a great conversationalist is to practice, practice, practice!
Key points your conversation should establish
- What he does for a living
- If he’s local or visiting
- His age
- (I would say if he’s married or not, but men love lying, so idk)
- contact information (if you are intrested)
I would let him lead the conversation, but do steer it in the right direction. Flirt as confidently as you can, and get as much information as possible without coming off intrusive.
To be honest ladies, meeting rich men isn’t all that hard imo. If you’re in the right place, with the right look, and know how to hold a conversation you will do just fine. I’ve met so many accomplished men going between NY and Philly that I cannot keep count. They’re out there – looking for you!
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