How I Manifest My Dream Life ✨

To be honest, sometimes I don’t even know

The other day a girlfriend of mine says to me ” you know you’re living everyone’s dream, right?”. Earlier that day my bestie and I were discussing how I manifested becoming a realtor here in Tampa (oh, have I mentioned I moved to Florida?). It’s funny because I always doubt my ability to manifest, and yet, here am I living a life I envisioned! One of my counselors always tells me how amazing she think’s I am at manifesting. Everything that I desire I either have or am in route to get. It wasn’t always like this though. Many things had to happen in my life for me to become a woman that creates a life she loves.

I know we all want to live a dream life, but truth be told many of us never will. It will never be because you weren’t special enough or pretty enough. But instead, It will always be because you did not believe in your process or put in the required effort. I think especially as black women we see so many women the that look like us live in stressful and undesirable lifestyles. But I’m here to tell you: if you can envision the woman and life you want then you can have it. In order to successfully manifest you have to be patient. Life goals hardly happen overnight, but if you take my advice and adapt it to suit you I have no doubt you will become the woman of your dreams!

A day in the life as ms. sunshine

It’s official.. I have relocated to Tampa, Florida.

My boyfriend and I moved here in what will be one month in a few days. Every morning when I wake up open our blinds and see the palm trees I fall in love all over again. My morning routine (I call it my rituals) consistence of juicing, journaling, mat pilates, and having breakfast on our patio. I genuinely don’t think I could be any happier.

Since we’ve moved in my boyfriend has barely been here. As of lately I only see him on the weekends. He’s on assignment in Georgia, so he goes there doing the work week. Except this weekend, he went back to Philly, but that’s another story. Nonetheless, I have so much more planned for my life here that I can’t wait to share with you ladies as it happens.

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But, back to manifesting our dream life. If you would’ve told me January of last year that this is where I would be in 2022 I couldn’t picture it. I do always tend to feel that a blessing is always on the horizon for me, and that I believe that positive energy is what moves positive things into my life.

At its core, manifesting is energy. The more you’re able to think positively the easier it will be to attract

Just to be clear, I have a long way to go before I really feel like I’m living my dram life. However, I always think if i received everything I wanted at once then what would be the reason to keep living life? Good things take time and great things take even longer. Don’t let social media fool you into believing that everyone is out here smashing their goals and loving life because it simply just isn’t true.

A few things that helped me manifest my dream life…

Visualizing what I want – I am extremely specific in what I want out of life and I write everything down. It may sound crazy, but I have goals written for every decade until my 70’s. Though I know life has a way of messing up our plans goals are what keep us on track when life leads us astray.
Remaining prayerful – Sometime I am unclear on what to do. Other times I can’t decipher between intuition or anxiety. When I need clarity I turn to God. I trust that he has a plan for me that’s better than anything ai could imagine.
Selective with people – Everybody isn’t worth your time. You have discerning in who you spend your time with.

Exposure – This is really a *major key*. In the black community we often are limited in what positive experiences we’re exposed to. The more you see the more you’ll believe you can have it yourself.
Surrendering to life – I think we tend to believe we should be in this place or have that car or whatever it is forgetting that when the time it right we will receive what we have asked for. Create space in your life for new and watch new come.