Many of us dream of meeting a man that will fulfill all our hearts desires.. well at least financially. After years of experience meeting many different types of men I am here to tell you meeting successful men honestly isn’t all that hard. You just have to know what you’re looking for. Only then after being able to identify the signs will you be able to pick the right guy(s).
Like many of you, I use to get my fair share of salt and Splenda. Unfortunately it just seems to be part of the process. These days I wouldn’t even waste my time or energy with such a man. I know what I want, as should you, and then I go and manifest it.
In this article I’ll dive into some tips and tricks on how and where to meet rich men
Salt vs. Splenda vs. Sugar
First, you need to be able to recognize the type of man in front of you. If a man is stingy by nature take it as a cue he will be stingy with you too.
Try not to put too much emphasis on how he’s dressed because looks can be deceiving. A nicely dressed man can be real life broke while a man that looks basic a billionaire.
- Salt: wants something for nothing, will make you jump through hoops for very little, is all talk, has nothing to offer. Overall this is a low quality man.
- Splenda: has money though you’ll never see it, gives you the bare minimum, very manipulate and probably narcissistic. Another low quality man.
- Sugar: the real deal, wants to make you happy and your life easier, will provide what he can, generous, you feel there is a fair exchange of power.
Disclaimer: these categories are simply personality types. He does not have to be a certain age or have a certain amount of money to fit into these categories.
Get Social
This is by far the most important part. You will not likely find him by left swiping from your couch.
Go outside! Go where successful men tend to congregate. Again ladies, you have to be in his general sphere in order to meet him. Literally all you have to do is be attractive in public and look approachable and a confident man will do the rest.
Places to be:
- Affluent neighborhoods (dog parks, coffee shops, gyms)
- Country clubs (if possible may be get a job at one!)
- 4+ star hotel bars
- Steakhouse bars (try happy hour or lunchtime)
Related: The Perfect Hinge Dating Profile to Attract Successful Men
Try new hobbies
If you want things you never had you have to do things you never did. Leveling up in life is all about pushing yourself out of your comfort zone. Sometimes it isn’t the easiest, but it’s always worth it.
A lot of corporate sports like golf and tennis are a social playground for successful men. Also, it may be worth joining a private club or exclusive gym if you can afford to.
Hobbies to try:
- golf
- tennis
- polo
- racquet
Make friends with like-minded women
As they say “birds of a feather flock together”. This might seem counterintuitive, but it’s likely she can introduce you to some successful men. Maybe her boyfriend or husband has a single friend who is an eligible bachelor you could be perfect for.
Every relationship you have, man or woman, you should be able to leverage. A woman that is on her journey to the top has a lot of value to offer and those are the type of people you want around you. Also, women that come from money are also valuable resources as their peers are likely successful men.
Look the Part
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Lastly, but certainly not least: make sure you look good. If you’re like most of my readers I’ll assume you’re a woman that takes pride in her appearance, however, many ladies over do it. You want to look classy and elegant – not like a hoe (no shade).
Presentation tips:
- Dress elegantly
- Tasteful makeup
- Hygiene (smell nice, clean teeth, manicured nails)
Behave Like a Lady
A lady is a woman that is well behaved and always appropriate for the occasion. She carries herself with grace and shows restraint over her emotions.
A few ways to refine your behavior:
- Learn to think before you speak
- Practice having a calm demeanor
- Articulate your words
- Practice good posture
In the end: if you want to meet rich men, you just have to be in the right place and have the right look. Anything you don’t know you will learn with practice. If you’re serious about leveling up your life and dating choices you have the power to make the change necessary. Don’t be afraid to put yourself out there and go after what you want! But remember: always stay in your feminine!
